Samina Ali awoke with a start at 5 a.m. to the sound of her husband, Tim Graham, gasping for breath beside her. He was only 46 years old, but she knew immediately that his heart was in trouble.
A physician and professor of pediatrics at the University of Alberta, Ali called 911, started chest compressions and sorted out care for their three children as Tim was rushed to the hospital in an ambulance.
It was a whirlwind of stress for the family that left Ali sleepless for months afterwards, even though Tim survived his cardiac arrest and was released from hospital just two weeks later.
"The cardiologist shook our hands and said, 'This is a miracle, it's such an incredible outcome. You should be so happy, have a great rest of your lives,'" Ali remembers. "We went home, and every time I had doubt, sadness or anger about what happened, it felt like a betrayal because our amazing care team told us we were so gosh darn lucky.
"I know now that all the things that I felt were very normal feelings, but once you leave the hospital, there's no followup. You have to process all of it on your own."
Ali had to seek out private counselling, including guided family debriefing, to deal with post-traumatic stress symptoms.
Ali is hoping other families won't have to do the same on their own. She served as a survivor family adviser for a U of A-led study on the care needs of families of cardiac arrest patients, which proposes new clinical practice guidelines. Over the weekend, the paper won 2023 Article of the Year from the Emergency Nurses Association and the Journal of Emergency Nursing.
"It used to be that the guidance (for emergency medical services and hospital staff) was mostly about how to break bad news to families," says lead author Matthew Douma, an emergency nurse educator and adjunct professor of critical care medicine. "We want to reconceptualize that."
"Our research reflects that the families need to be heard, their presence respected and acknowledged early on. They need the right information provided in the right way at the right time."
Critical moments
Sixty thousand Canadians experience cardiac arrest outside of hospitals each year. Only one in 10 survive, according to the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada. For Ali, her husband's cardiac arrest was a rude awakening both professionally and personally.
"It's a very different experience being a family member when you're used to being the one providing the health care," she says. "After Tim got home, I'd be up all night waiting for something bad to happen again. I just couldn't trust that we were safe. And there's a genetic component to his cardiac issue, so then I was worrying about the kids."
Ali is convinced the medical staff her family encountered were well-meaning, but some just didn't have the training to meet their emotional needs.
"We don't often realize how important that moment is when we ask the family to leave the patient care room, or we rapidly summarize what happened so we can just get them out of the intensive care unit because we need that bed for someone else," Douma explains. "Those may not seem like very significant moments for health-care providers, but sometimes they can be the most significant for families. Our work is really trying to shed light on those moments."
